Most of us do not put on racy, provocative shows. Sometimes we are playful, and we are paid to be entertaining. If we know (and usually we ask questions about your event) that there will be children and/or elders there, we will tailor our dance and costuming to be more conservative. A great dancer will put on a great show, no matter who is watching.
On the flip side, most of us dancing professionally do not appreciate requests to be overtly sexy or suggestive with the audience. Dancers who are true professionals will have standards, set rates, length of performances, and a list of requirements or stipulations. We are not strippers, spokesmodels, or escorts, so if your event requires that, then make your phone call to the appropriate agency!